Could I Be Happier?

 Could I be happier?

We ask ourselves this question every single time whether we know it or not: before we commit ourselves to a relationship, when we are in a relationship, before we get out of a relationship, before we say yes to a job, is she the one or is he the one? 

Today happiness has become a mandate. It has become more about how satisfied am I with my life here on earth and if not, then what can I do to achieve that? Doesn't matter who I step on.

 Happiness is the reason why most people leave their relationships,to find happiness! To find if there's something more out there that can ensure this standard of happiness that they have set for themselves. It is the reason why most marriages end up in divorce, just to answer the question could I be happier if I left this person am with? or even better yet, could I be happier with someone else? 

We all want what's best for ourselves. We are all chasing this concept known as happiness but who really knows the perfect definition of this word. 

We have set such high standards for ourselves that we never really know happiness until it is the very definition of the same standards we have. And it's funny because the further we go into this era, the more lost we are from what truly is the definition if happiness.

Happiness is where you are, happiness is what you make of it .You create a foundation where you can be happy, you get to define what happiness means to you every single day: it can be that smile on your partners face ,it can be a lifetime gesture of kids with your partner, and if you not happy in that relationship and you just cant figure how to make it work then walk away.

Somethings are just not meant to work,no matter how hard you try. You can give everything to that relationship but if your efforts are not met half way then it will never work.

I believe in fighting for what we love or who we love but then there's a point where you reach and feel that it's not working and that's enough reason to go.

 If you are not happy with that job look for something you love and if you not happy with the decision you made yesterday then make a better one tomorrow.

C'est la vie .